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  1. I am in the same bucket on finalizing our 2017 goals…… Mrs AE will be getting 60% of her take home pay for part of it and has enough PTO to cover another part but at least a few weeks will be unpaid (not to mention the insurance increase….)

    Personally – I wouldn’t eat into savings to pay down a mortgage and would keep it as a buffer entering the unknown.

  2. I actually did dip into my savings to pay off my mortgage. I had around $47k in a savings account and felt that a much better use of that would be to pay off the remaining $32k mortgage and be done with it.

    Huge disclaimer: I don’t have kids. Kids are an important factor since so much can happen at any time and you never know when you might need that money held in savings for a surprise medical bill or anything else that unexpectedly pops up.

    If I was you, I’d keep that money in savings. You can always use it down the line to make additional mortgage payments (along with any interest its accrued). But it really comes down to how much money in your savings account makes you feel secure, and that’s going to be a very personal number.

    • I love it, Kate! I would absolutely rip the Bandaid off at that point! And I do feel like we are setting out into the unknown. I won’t decide anything until we get a better handle on everyone’s health and my leave 🙂

  3. I love giving advice. Even when it isn’t solicited 😉 With the uncertainty of maternity leave, I’d make regular payments now and let the cash pile up while things get figured out. Then once you figure out if you’ll be paid at all, then you can decide if you want to make double payments or not. Pushing out the double payments a few months won’t make or break your plans. Best of luck!

    • +1 This is basically what I came here to say. If it were me, I wouldn’t be making any extra payments at all until you come back from maternity leave and know what your budget looks like then. Do you know how much delivery will cost you? Daycare? Diapers? Formula? Other baby stuff? You can always make a huge extra payment when you go back to work but you can’t get the cash back.

      • I agree. I would leave the savings in the account until later. Your budget may change, you’ll have additional expenses and, possibly, some unplanned expenses. You can always make a larger payment after you get a good idea of what your finances look like after the baby arrives. Just my two cents.

        I’m so excited to follow your journey into parenthood!!!

      • Leigh, I really want to do a but, but, but…But I think you’re right. We’re going to make the double payments through March, and then we’ll hold off. As for your other questions, the only one that I can say “yes, sort of” to is the labor and delivery. I’m BFFs with the Blue Cross Blue Shield reps now. I call them constantly! But again, it really depends on how I deliver, everyone’s health, etc. So that’s the “sort of” part.

  4. We’re paying the minimums on our mortgage ($1,000/mo) for the next two years while we pay off our $65,000 student loans. Once the loans are out of the way, we’ll start paying $3,000 to $4,000 a month on the mortgage. Our note was for $145,000, so we have it a little easier, but we should be able to pay it off within 6 – 8 years, depending on a few factors.

  5. Just let it be and don’t pay extra. I’m actually in the middle of a few months of not paying any extra on my own mortgage to be able to have a 1-month buffer and start actually living on the previous month’s income… I thought it would be more stressful not paying extra, but it’s really not a big deal because I know I’ll pick those back up as soon as I can. ALSO, speaking as someone that paid an overdraft fee and a late fee + interest on my credit card after my son was born and there were complications, KEEP THINGS SIMPLE… life hits hard with a newborn and if you’ve complicated things, you’ll end up paying STUPID FEES (I’m still flippin’ angry!). 🙂

    • Mr. P’s favorite thing to tell me right now is that my brain is shrinking. And sometimes I feel like he’s not wrong! I don’t like to automate, but I’ve definitely moved more towards that recently. Between not feeling great and feeling like I’m in a fog, I need all the help I can get. That’s really helpful advice, Maggie.

  6. Adding kids to the home can switch things up. And the trouble is sometimes you can’t anticipate how the situation or you will change. My advice would be to stock pile that cash, just in case. Just in case things change or happen in ways you can’t foresee right now. You could open up a separate account called: to pay off the mortgage. Seeing the money piling up in there might make you feel like you are still making progress. But it will give you some cushion just in case.

    • While I’m not a huge fan of separate accounts, I think I could totally get on board with this, Ms. Montana. I feel like we have “enough”, but I also know that once Baby is here, I will never, ever probably feel like “enough is enough” again!

  7. I’d have to agree with the other comments that you should make regular mortgage payments and stockpile the cash for now. Life has enough uncertainty and add to that another small person, I think it’s just safer to have the cushion.

    As for our mortgage, we are tackling it by making small (but consistent!) extra principal payments. It’s not going away any time soon, but I like knowing that I’m shrinking the size and length of this debt.

    • It’s such a struggle, Gary! I know we had more money in our savings than we should. In addition to a 6-month emergency fund, we have probably another $20K that should be working for us. But now that I read all these comments, I feel like I need a paper bag to breathe into. Even if I can’t/don’t pay extra as I go this year, it would be really fun to make a huge extra payment at the end of the year (if there’s any money left)!

  8. Excuse me, your brain is BUSY not SHRINKING. 😉

    I know what you want to hear, which is what I would want to hear, but I’m gonna have to jump on the other side too. Pile up the cash for now. The stress of not having the cash later if you need it for something you can’t defer is much worse than the unfulfilled desire to pay down the mortgage. You can hit that sucker later if you find yourselves with no immediate need for that cash.

  9. I wouldn’t make any extra payments until after maternity leave. For one the cost of daycare is a real shocker (shameless plug my post this Friday is scheduled to be about daycare costs). So your costs on the other end may be higher then expected. The second reason is some women have difficulty coming back. By that I mean they feel like they are missing part of their child’s life. You never know how you’ll feel, you could end up being a stay at home mom. It took my wife working through one kid and a year into the second before she realized that’s what she needed.

  10. Another vote for piling up cash. You don’t know what you or baby need over the next year. You do know that the instant you make an extra payment, that money is gone.

    Liquidity, flexibility and peace of mind are key right now. No need to mess with that.

  11. Piling on the bandwagon here- anytime there are a lot of unknowns, cash is king. If you have to be on bedrest or there are any complications, it will give you so much peace of mind. As my great aunt said, you’re pretty lucky if the only problems you have can be solved with money.

    So let the stash grow, and when everyone’s happy and healthy and life gets back to your new normal, you can make a whopping, earth-shattering mortgage payment and do a happy dance for weeks.

    Wish I could insert a gif here 🙂

  12. I’m with the rest, stockpile the cash. You may want to increase your emergency fund before your little one’s here, and you’re likely to have a host of new recurring expenses plus the cost of delivering your precious bundle. You’ll have daycare to consider (and quality care is pricey, especially for infants. Start looking now). Medical insurance, maybe upping life insurance for you and Mr. P.

    It’s great that you’ve doubled payments for a while, but you may have to slow down the mortgage payments to keep the rest of your financial ship ship-shape for while.

  13. I’m going to chime in to agree with the consensus here – prepare for the unexpected and then you can make a giant payment later if everything goes according to plan.

    One idea is to track the money, or physically separate the amount of each extra payment. Earmark it for the mortgage and only use it if absolutely necessary. If you do need to use some of it, keep track of that too. The deficit amount could be a good goal number for you to make up in the future.

    I’m starting to get worried about bed rest and having to leave work early as this pregnancy wears me down. And, there’s new concerns this time about how insurance works with stays in the NICU. I feel your pain on waiting on unanswered questions about not only leave, but short-term disability before delivery. I worked till the bitter end with the other three pregnancies, so all my time off could be spent cuddling babies. It wouldn’t so horrible to spend time with the other three while waiting to give birth, but I’d prefer to have as much time as possible to get into a routine with the two babies.

  14. Sherikr

    I’m in the same boat as you. I want to get rid of our mortgage, but I want to keep the flexibility of a cash buffer. Here’s something we did about a year ago. We stockpiled a good amount of cash towards our mortgage, and we put in a separate account. We had some job uncertainty coming up, so we struck a balance. We contacted our bank and asked them to recast our loan for a smaller balance. Essentially, they take your remaining amount owed (with the extra payments deducted) and recast the new (smaller) balance over the life of the loan. This makes the monthly payments smaller.

    While the payoff date doesn’t change, we don’t pay a lot of attention to that (since we plan to pay the mortgage off early anyway). This just gives us more flexibility on a monthly basis. For us, we got more flexibility, but we’re still on track to dump the mortgage sooner with extra payments. We always have the option to pay more, and now we have the option to pay less.

    Just thought I’d throw it out there as some middle ground. 😀

  15. I think I would be looking for little ways to keep chip, chip, chipping away. So maintaining double payments probably is a bit risky, but even $25 a month would make me feel better. It’s not a lot, but it’s something. Or another way of handling might be to really stretch your budget and come in under estimate on things like groceries and insurances. Not always possible, it depends how much flex you currently have in there. If you save $10 per month on groceries, that’s a little extra you can pay off your mortgage.

    It’s difficult to let go of mortgage overpayments once you get started, I know that!

  16. We just finished paying off our mortgage. We overpaid a little (rounding up to the nearest number) when we were stockpiling cash early on for various reasons (saving for leave, DH wanting to quit), used big lump sums after the thing we had been saving for cost less than expected, made double payments for a while, then stopped prepaying at all later on when the balance was small and we weren’t saving much in interest anymore.

    Now with the mortgage gone I’m having a hard time remembering to pay daycare…

  17. I agree with everyone suggested you hoard your cash. Pregnancies and children don’t always cost as planned. Having it around would help me sleep better.

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